Disclaimer this blog post details of personal experiences and opinions regarding past encounters with narcissistic behavior traits.  It is for informational, informative purposes only and should not be considered a substitute for professional psychological or medical advice please consult a qualified mental health professional for any concerns regarding your personal situation

DID THE NARCISSIST EVER LOVE ME?

Understanding a relationship with a narcissist can be incredibly confusing, especially when trying to determine if they ever truly loved you. Narcissists often display behaviors that may feel loving at first, such as intense charm and affection, but these can quickly turn into manipulation and emotional turmoil. It’s important to remember that a narcissist's love is often conditional, rooted in how you make them feel rather than genuine care for your well-being. They may express love during the idealization phase but may turn cold and dismissive during devaluation periods. This inconsistency can lead you to question if the love you felt was real or merely a projection of their needs. While it’s natural to seek closure, the focus should be on your healing and understanding the nature of narcissism itself. Recognizing that their love is often a reflection of their self-absorption can empower you to move forward and rebuild your life with healthier relationships. Remember, true love is characterized by empathy, respect, and mutual support—qualities that are commonly absent in relationships with narcissists.