Connections
Relationship connections are a natural desire.
Under normal circumstances we all want to be loved and have someone love us back. Unfortunately, sometimes we meet people that lead us to believe they care about us in the beginning of the relationship, but in reality are misleading us psychologically in order to benefit their own selfish needs. This is very common in narcissistic relationships. Typically in the beginning stage of that type of personality disorder they will love bomb you treating you with admiration.
As time goes on, their toxic personality will begin to emerge with devaluing either verbally, physically or a combination of both. Sometimes they try to isolate us from our family and friends. As time go on you may find yourself in a situation of financial abuse. Do not make the mistake of waiting too long to get help. If you feel that you are being abused and are in danger call local police department for help immediately and get away if you can safely.
If you are dating someone new reserve yourself to commitment and judgment until you let's significant time go by.
Do not commit immediately to anyone until you begin to find out what type of personality you are dealing with. Typically, people with a narcissistic personality disorder will love bomb you and be the sweetest kindest gentlest person right from the start. They may buy you gifts, take you to nice restaurants, be everything you think you want in a person until they get you to commit at which time the dark side comes out. The best way to protect yourself is from the start.
Be selective especially if you're a female. Most men are hunters by nature.They want to pursue. That is fine, but you need to realize that some people are predators and you may not realize it until you're in a bad situation. Protect yourself by telling your family and friends where you're going, who you're going with and when you'll be home.
