Women are natural nurturers
Women by nature are natural nurturers.
Call it the motherly instinct or the feminine energy but most females carry that natural desire to serve.
If we become a mother we have an instinct to protect our young and it doesn't matter how big the opponent is we do not back down. This is how God made us.
Typically most females have a natural instinct to protect and love the people in their lives.
There may be exceptions to that instinct if there is a personality disorder such as narcissism which involves a person who only thinks about themselves and does not love anyone. That person just feeds off the kindness and generosity of others and pretends to be loving in the beginning of a relationship before they become distant, cold, deceitful and selfish.
Most genuinely loving mothers sacrifice for their children and also if they have a significant other or spouse will put their family before themselves.
It is a natural instinct as a female who really loves her family to want to take care of them.
Most vulnerable are single females, moms or willows who have lost their spouse living alone. Even though you are a strong independent woman, there are people in this society that prey upon others in certain situations.
Take precautions if you start to date others.. Ask questions, be selective and don't divulge too much of your information immediately to everybody.
Get to know the people that you're dating before you become close and avoid intimacy, if possible so that you can make a wise decision if you want to get involved with that person further.
If someone is trying to force intimacy on you right from the beginning of the relationship before you even get to know them well , and they get mad at you for saying no than they're not worth pursuing. The best way to avoid a narcissist is to not give them what they want. Most of these people that have these personality disorders want something immediately because by nature they're selfish They will love bomb in order to manipulate with the goal of creating a trama bond.
After a narcissist feels confident.They have you in their clutches they begin the devaluation and mistreat.
Know your self worth. You are a beautiful intelligent woman.And you deserve the best that life has to offer.
Be selective. Remember you are special.
You deserve the best relationships.
Someone that really honors, love's and respects you will not be offended if you say no. You don't have to agree with everything.Somebody wants.
Be kind to yourself.You do not need to be a people pleaser to everyone.
If someone really cares about you, they will stay in your life.
Enjoy each day as a gift from God.
